1190 - Linda is Fully Transitioned Female in a Poly Relationship w/a Couple

Trans woman story: late transition, BDSM, and polyamory in one candid episode

This episode features Linda, a post-op trans woman who shares a lifetime of identity, sexuality, and intimate relationships. She explains how she knew she was different as a child, pursued a long marriage, transitioned at 39, and navigated the kink scene and polyamorous throuple life afterwards. The conversation explores real-world subjects like hormone-driven libido changes, sex after vaginoplasty, and how fetish communities respond to transition.

How a late transition intersects with the BDSM community

Linda’s transition did not start with cross-dressing or fetish wear; instead it emerged from early gender identity awareness. She describes discovering BDSM through a flogging and fire cupping, then integrating into kink spaces as a trans woman. This is a practical listen for people researching "trans woman BDSM community experience" or "how post-op trans women navigate kink events."

Polyamory and relationship structure: kitchen-table throuple explained

The episode outlines how Linda moved from an open marriage to a committed throuple with a couple. She defines the arrangement, describes emotional boundaries, and explains practical household roles, offering insight for listeners interested in "polyamory throuple dynamics after transition" and "kitchen table polyamory with a trans partner."

Sexual function, hormones, and intimacy after surgery

Technical but relatable details address libido shifts on estrogen, difficulties with erectile function, and the physiology behind clitoral orgasms after vaginoplasty. Linda’s account answers questions for searchers curious about "post-op sexual function for trans women" and "how hormones change libido in transgender women."

Family, community, and ethical views on youth transition

Linda shares her parents’ reactions, losing parts of a gay social circle, and why she opposes medical transition for children. Her perspective is valuable for readers exploring "adult transition reflections" and ethical debates around "children transitioning and long-term impacts."

• People exploring adult gender transition and long-term relationship impacts.
• Kink community members wanting trans-inclusive perspectives on flogging, fire cupping, and strap-on dynamics.
• Anyone curious about polyamory logistics when a partner transitions.

This candid narrative balances lived experience with practical details, making it a useful resource for low-frequency queries about post-op intimacy, kink inclusion, and polyamorous relationship maintenance after gender transition.